She Deserves the Kind of Love She Gives Everyone Else💕

Sometimes, girlhood is praying your friend finds someone who loves her even more than you do.

Someone who sees her the way you see her—soft but strong, silly and sacred, brilliant and brave all at once. Someone who knows her moods, her moods inside her moods, and still says, “That’s my girl.”

We all have that one friend—the ride-or-die, the “I got your location on” friend, the “say the word and I’m pulling up” friend. And if you’re lucky, maybe you’ve got a whole tribe of them.

So when it comes to love—the romantic kind—there’s a deep, quiet hope in us that she gets nothing less than what she pours into others.

She deserves someone who learns her love language without her having to say it three times.

Someone who knows her favorite snack and when she needs it.

Someone who doesn’t just want her, but chooses her—daily, proudly, intentionally.

And listen—it’s not even about him being tall, rich, or a six-pack-having softie who reads poetry by candlelight (though hey, we wouldn’t complain).

It’s about him being present.

Gentle with her heart. Loud about his love. Safe. Steady.

The kind of man who makes her feel seen, heard, and held—even in silence.

We want him to know that her laugh is a national treasure. That her tears are not a weakness but a sacred release. That her kindness is not to be taken lightly, and her boundaries are not to be crossed.

Because she is the stuff of dreams.

And anyone who gets the chance to love her should feel like they just hit life’s ultimate jackpot.

So here’s to our friends. The ones who’ve held us through heartbreak, helped us fix our lashes in bathroom mirrors, hyped us up like personal cheer squads, and reminded us of our worth when we forgot.

We hope they find a love that mirrors everything they are and everything they’ve given.

A love that’s safe, healthy, real—and still makes them giggle like teenagers.

And if they haven’t found it yet?

We’re still praying.

Still manifesting.

Still holding space until it finds them.

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Woman to woman, remember queen:

You are deserving of the love you so freely give. Not just in friendships, but in romance too. So if it’s not that? Don’t settle.

Let them miss out on you.

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